The female orgasm is one of the most sought after events in our sexual lives, and something that doesn’t come easy or very often. As men who care about our ladies, we always want to give them pleasure, but we often find ourselves working hard only to fall tiredly on the bed next to her without much more than a few moans.
The way a woman enjoys sexual pleasure is very different from the way a man does, and she often needs more time and to be in the right frame of mind to even approach orgasm. While no techniques are going to be completely effective for every woman, there are a few things that you can do to improve your woman’s pleasure.
Set the mood
One of the best things you can do to ensure that she’s satisfied is to spend some time preparing for the event. If there’s one thing you should know about women by now is that they love to feel special and taken care of. Spending a few moments to clean up around the house and to freshen up a little before approaching her will go a long way to get her in the mood.
Go a little out of your way in some small manner and she’ll feel touched that you took the time to make her feel special. Light some candles, get out the massage oil, wear the boxers she bought you last Christmas; whatever you do, do it for her and let her know it. When she feels special she’ll want you to also feel special. Get where we’re going?
Focus on her
While making love to the same person every day, things can get a little routine – you kiss, you undress, you make love, you finish and get dressed, etc. A little suspense and novelty will help change things up and get her heading towards orgasm in no time.
Whisper in her ear that you’d like her to close her eyes while you spend some time pleasing her. Then take some time to massage and caress every part of her body while saying sweet things to her every so often. This will not only get her wanting you more, but will also warm her up for what’s to come. We often like to get right down to the point, but taking the time to make your woman a priority will get her hot and ready.
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